Don't Drink and Drive

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Straight through UWI and still now, I've never really drank alcohol. I like Smirnoff cause it tastes like Ting and I like Rum Cream...cause it taste like cream :) I've always thought drinking was pointless. I couldn't understand why. I got drugs, and I got sex. They felt good (so I heard). But all I remembered from drinking was people puking. How was that inviting?
That was until recently. People laugh when they drink. They're happy. They still know the realities of life, but just for a little, life isn't so bad. So drinking really isn't that pointless.
I'm not sure why it took me so long to realise that the real reason I don't drink is the same reason I don't smoke or don't have sex (or shouldn't eat so much junk food). It's because my body isn't my own. I've been bought with a price. I don't own my body. I can't determine what I do with it. And God says not to get drunk. He says my body is precious, and that I'm to take good care of it. It's almost like a lightbulb went off when I read 2 Tim 1:1-14.
I dream about doing all these things sometimes. I want to know the thrill of it all. But I wake up and there's more to it than that. I have a responsibility. And I am not ashamed.
VM

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